We went to visit a school last week as part of the outings for the term at kindy. They combined the school visit with participation in their school movement programme, a wonderful opportunity for the kids to see the "big" kids doing their exercises that have been designed to help with crossing the mid-line and promote concentration in class. It was fantastic to see them all running and jumping, landing in circles and walking on the balance beam, with the principal smiling indulgently and on hand to answer any questions that the prospective parents had to ask. I was impressed with my two (I always am, I am their mom, after all), but mostly for their wholehearted enthusiasm and ability to throw themselves into the activities without the self-consciousness that I am sure I had at their age. I would have been the one holding back, standing where I could not be noticed, thinking "if I can only make it through without making an absolute idiot of myself I will be fine." They had none of that hesitancy or self-doubt. Not sure how that happened, but I fervently hope that air of competence and confidence stays!
Not surprisingly, it was one of mine who raised his hand.
"Is there a chance we could rather play at the park?" he asked loudly.
Oh well, I suppose we can scratch that school off the list now...
My heart goes out to you! We know we prepare them to 'fly' but each time the new phase comes.....the mother's heart needs to adjust again!Hope you find a great school :-)
ReplyDeleteToo true - being a mother is about a little more heartache to accept and deal with every day as we watch them walk away. And we wouldn't have it any other way!
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